When I was actively working my direct sales business I developed a set of business principles. These were different from my business practices. In fact, they fueled my practices. My business principles were a set of beliefs I held about myself and my business. Here is a list of a few principles that I can remember right off the top of my head:
- My opportunity is amazing and everyone should at least consider it.
- I provide an incredible experience when I do parties and I bring great value to my hosts and my guests.
- Nothing is more important than my personal and family harmony (my word for what most of you call balance).
The practices that supported these principles had to do with how and when I shared my opportunity, what I asked of my hosts when they booked parties with me, and how I worked my business around my life and family schedule. They became the things I ALWAYS did, no matter what, because they supported my business principles. Make sense?
So, someone asked me this past week why I thought I was successful in my current business and it got me thinking. My business practices havent changed much. I jotted down a few notes about some of them that I thought might be relevant for you. Heres the top 4 list I came up with.
Show up On Time
This is a no brainer as far as Im concerned but Im always amazed at the number of people who are shocked to hear from me right at 11:30 am on a Wednesday morning if we happen to have an appointment for 11:30 am on a Wednesday morning. Why do so many people think its okay to be late? Bottom line for me…its not. When you show up late, youre clearly telling the other person “Your time isnt as important as mine so you can just wait for me.” Thats NEVER how I want someone else to feel because its not a reflection in any way of my beliefs. I once worked for someone who was horribly late all the time (and I mean sometimes more than an hour late). I spent lots of time dealing with upset clients who didnt feel valued by him. I learned a valuable lesson from that.
Deliver on What you promise
In fact, over deliver on what you promise. When you actually do what you say youre going to do, people love that. When you send them a bonus or a thank you note for no reason other than that youre thrilled to be doing business with them, they REALLY love that.
Listen
“Being listened to is so close to being loved, most people cant tell the difference.” Im not sure who actually said that but its one of my favorite quotes. Seems simple enough, right. Not really. Its amazing how many of us really dont know how to listen at all. Heres a simple shift you can make right now that will instantly turn you into an excellent listener – get curious about the other person. Listen as if you were going to be tested later on everything they said. Not only will you listen more intently when youre being curious, youll ask follow up questions (which is a clear signal to the other person that youre listening).
Offer support
This is quite possibly number one for me. The first question I tend to ask anyone Im working with is “How can I best support you?” The beauty of this question is it not only informs them that you intend to make it all about them, but it also moves them immediately to a solution focused outcome instead of a complaint position. Even when Im dealing with an unhappy client, when I ask this question it immediately shifts their focus from why theyre upset to what they want the outcome to be. The more support you offer, the more people like and trust you. Plus theres the by-product that it feels really great to support someone else, so its really a win-win.
I believe that these 4 principles are the key to success in my business (maybe yours as well).
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